Love starts with you

Over the course of my time as a Coach, I have had times when potential clients have connected with me and asked me

'How do I make this person whom I love fall in love with me?'

Unfortunately, there are many who feel they can use the Law of Attraction methods, to make someone fall in love with them.

Yes, it is true that you can be, do and have anything you want in life BUT if the energy to the thing you want is not the same, you will not attract it to your life.

This is not to say, you cannot have the relationship you want. You sure as hell can, but it starts with you.

It starts with you aligning to your inner soul and to the Higher Power within you, so you connect to that which is truly aligned for you.

When you do this, then what you want becomes what you have, as you would not want anything that you haven't aligned with.

So what exactly does this mean? I hear you saying, lol.

Once you know what you want from a relationship, your potential partner etc doing this objectively, without placing anybody's face in that role ok! You begin aligning to what is aligned for you, instead of coming from a place of desperation striving for something else.

SIster, desperation will never bring you true love...it will just leave you with more of the same feeling as the energy of desperation attracts more of the same.

So if you are in this situation, don't be and do everything to attract this partner.

Be yourself, do what you love, love yourself and value yourself first and that will carve out the attractive force that will either bring you both together or you may decide, that you don't want this relationship anymore because you are not naturally aligned for each other and head in the direction of your aligned relationship that is the perfect fit for you.

Note - if you decide that you both are not meant to be together, it will not be a negative upsetting break, as you both feel that energy, so it becomes mutually beneficial for all.

Remember, it takes time. Relationships need time and space for each individual to grow into their own person.

The happiest relationships are when 2 people come together, not trying to please or be with each other, but it just aligns naturally and you both enjoy each other for whom each other is, instead of being someone that the other expects because you want them to be yours.

This isn't loving and it sure isn't living.

So my message to you today is if there is someone you want to attract into your life as a soul mate...first work on your own soul and build your relationship with yourself first, because trust me when you do, the aligned one will come your way and it will just flow easily between you both.

Until next time

Peace & Blessings

Coach Rita xoxo

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This blog post is copyrighted by Coach Rita Hurry of Swasthya Living.

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